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六禮
                                                                               
 一、納采: 提親(的禮物)
                                                                               
 二、問名: 取坤書
                                                                               
           => 女方的八字 男稱乾書
                                                                               
           問母名
                                                                               
           => 古代女性幾乎無名字 都以先生的姓稱之
                                                                               
              而在古代通常覺得對方母親和自己同姓
             就是血緣較親 盡量不結婚 可以紅樓夢來看 XDD
                                                                               
              不過傳統也是男女雙方同姓盡量不結婚的)
                                                                               
 三、納吉: 取得祝福
                                                                               
           => 男方會把雙方八字(乾坤書)放在神桌上 以祈求祝福
                                                                               
              並且裝兩杯水放著 若三天內水沒髒或是男方家中一切順利
                                                                               
              即可結婚 若發生什麼事就會認為和家中不和 若是硬嫁
                                                                               
              女生應該也會很痛苦吧 (會被欺負 XDD)
                                                                               
 四、納徵: 送訂婚禮餅
                                                                               
           => 告訴大家不用再幫自己的女兒作媒了
                                                                               
              她已經被訂走囉!!!! XD
                                                                               
 五、請期: 擇黃道吉日
                                        
           => 男方決定後再通知女方~
                                                                               
 六、親迎: 過門
                                                                               
           =>就是上門迎娶新娘子囉 ^++++++++++++++^
                                                        
這對於新人們來說超重要的！

畢竟這可是能結為連理的第一個步驟耶！

聽信媽媽說男方到女方家提親的時候，

大部分的人會選在早上去提親，

盡可能的會在中午前結束提親的行程，

並且不會在女方家吃午餐（為什麼要這麼做我忘記了），

那個李信信麻煩你來的時候記得要看一下這篇阿！

不然小心我爹和我娘會不把女兒嫁給你^^"
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